Depression – A Matter Of Choices

Depression and anxiety are prominent things prevailing among our youth . Let’s talk about one of the reason of why the youth is so dejected . We all are living a life which we actually never wanted to live . Fine , I agree life can never be exactly what we want it to be . It always lack something . We never get all we wish for . We have to compromise . COMPROMISE is must for happy and satisfied life .

You come across a lot of choices and opportunities throughout your life .

  1. Choose the best option among all the options . Which one is the best option for you ? OPTION WHICH SUITS OTHER IS NOT MEANT TO SUIT YOU .You have different aim , you have different goals and you have different way of looking at the things . It is what you are looking for in the options . Other person is opting for mbbs because he has interest in it . You have different interest so you are meant to choose the thing which satisfies your interest . Before choosing , ask yourself some questions – what you want ? Is it good or bad ? What will be the future consequences ? Will they be good or bad ? LISTEN TO OTHERS , TAKE SUGGESTIONS OF YOUR NEAR AND DEAR ONES BUT MAKE THE DECISION YOURSELF . FULL STOP
  2. Once you have chosen , give it your best . Close all the doors behind ( of mind and heart too) . Don’t give place to regrets . There is no back way now . Accept it as your reality and truth . Give it your maximum . Give it your all . “Think 100 times before you take a decision, But once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man”. Muhammad Ali Jinnah
  3. Now , leave things on God . Leave the result on God . Have faith on Him . What was in your hand , you did . Now , the fruit is in God’s hand . What he gives you , accept it . Don’t be ungrateful . Don’t be sad . He knows what is good for you . He will never let your efforts go to waste . He will give you the fruit in the best way and at the best time . HE LOVES YOU . HOPE FOR THE BEST . TRUST YOUR EFFORTS .

So when you have made a decision, then put your trust in Allah. – Quran [3:159]

– Quran [3:159]

RIGHT ON RIGHTS

Your rights are gift from God . He has given you right to live . He has given you right to choose your destination ; choose your career and choose your spouse . Even the right to choose your religion . No one can enforce on you anything .

“There is no compulsion in religion” (2:256)

He has told you right and wrong but he has given you rights to choose . No adult can be forced for anything .

There is a difference between fighting for your rights and rebelling .

Speaking for your right is not rebelling !

Standing up for your right is not rebelling !

Fighting for your right is not rebelling !

YOU ARE NOT DOING WRONG .

Giving up your right is not a compromise .

It is not a sacrifice .

They will keep snatching away your rights and others too till you will not speak up .

“The rights of every man are diminished when the rights of one man are threatened.”

Things will continue to work like this . Disturbance will prevail in society . Things will remain unbalance .

You are striving for good thing and it’s your right too then keep striving even if you are alone but you are right .

O you who have believed, do not prohibit the good things which Allah has made lawful to you”(5:87)

Don’t confuse yourself .

Don’t give up .

For something good you have to fight for it . NO COMPROMISE .

Life is only one time play .